What to expect on your first visit to a swingers club

Your have been talking about giving swinging a try with your partner for a while. After months of debate, you both decide that you want to move actively investigate the lifestyle, and that the best way to do that would be to visit a swingers club. Now that you have decided to go, the next thought that is likely to go through your head is "What should I expect on my first visit?"

Club Review : Club Princeton (Columbus, Ohio)

Club Princeton is one of the larger and better known swingers clubs in the midwest. Shortly after my wife and I started visiting swingers clubs in our hometown (Cincinnati), people started telling us that we needed to drive up to Columbus to check out Club Princeton. Needless to say, with so many recommendations, we knew we needed to check it out.

On to the review....

Swinger Slang

When you first start swinging, you will quickly discover that there is a lot of lifestyle specific terminology. Many swinger website and personal ads use slang or abbreviations, and it is important to be speaking the same language as everyone else.

Below is a list of some common swinger terminology that should help new swingers understand what everyone is talking about. This list is my no means all inclusive, but it should help the beginner swingers communicate with others in the lifestyle.

Club Review : The Red Rooster (Las Vegas, Nevada)

A few months ago, my wife and I traveled to Las Vegas to renew our wedding vows. After the ceremony, the first thought that went through our heads was "Let's go swinging!". A few minutes of google research shows that there were several swingers clubs in the Las Vegas area, but "The Red Rooster" was the one that stood out to us. The Red Rooster has been open since the 80's, and is considered to be one of the oldest operating swingers clubs in the country. The Red Rooster is an on premise club, and is BYOB (although you do need to check in your beverages with the bartender). Unlike most of the other clubs we have visited, the Red Rooster does not require a membership, you simply walk in the front door, pay the nightly entrance donation, and are welcomed to the club. The Red Rooster is open throughout the week as well as on the weekends, although the couples only upstairs area is not opened up on slower nights.

On to the review....

How I started swinging

So it would seem fitting that I share my story, and I hope you will do the same.  After all, sharing is part of the fun :)

It all began one playful night "pun intended" in college.  There I was with my boyfriend, his roommate, porn on the tv, and plenty of alcohol.  As we sat watching the porn, a scene came on of two guys and a girl.  I was 20 years old, and had not dated much in high school.  Looking back, I was very inexperienced and was only just starting to know what I liked and didn't like.  I had watched regular guy and girl porn and to be honest thought it was rather bland.

As I watched these two guys with this girl, I realized, "Holy hell that's hot!"  I was so turned on by the thought of receiving pleasure from two men! I had seen enough and it was time to go to the bedroom.  As my boyfriend (now husband) started undressing me and we started making out, his roommate enters the room.  I didn't know if he was going to sit and watch, or get in on the action.  We invited him to join and before I knew it, I was in sensory overload. 

Why do you swing?

One of the most frequently asked questions when meeting new couples is, "What brought you into this lifestyle?" For some it's the thrill of a new experience.  For others it may be something they have thought about, talked about, or even heard about.  We all have different reasons for choosing this lifestyle.....who am I kidding, we all like to get laid!!!  I mean come on, who doesn't love an ass  smacking, nipple teasing, good old fashion fuck?

Club Reviews : Our Process

Many swingers love to visit lifestyle clubs. Just as everyone in the lifestyle is different, every club has its own personality as well. While a simple google search can often tell you just where to find a swingers club, it often does not tell you much about the club itself, and it can be hard to determine if a club is a good fit for you before you visit it.

One of the primary goals of this blog is to provide a venue for our contributors to share their club experiences, and to provide our readers with neutral, unpaid reviews from people who are actually in the lifestyle and who have visited these clubs. We do not allow clubs to pay us to for a review, and all reviews are written by people with no financial connection to the club in question.

Every review will provide a summery of the club, focusing on the following areas

Facilities
Location
Clientel
Prices
Overall Impression

We do not give scores or grades, or even recommendations to clubs, our goal is to simply provide our readers with unbiased information so they can choose the right club to visit. Every time one of our contributors visits a new club, they will try to write a review on it. We hope you enjoy our reviews, and we encourage everyone to share their own experiences and opinions about the clubs we review in the comments section of each post.

Welcome to SwingingToday!

Welcome to SwingingToday! This blog was created  to give our contributors a place to share their experiences in the lifestyle with other swingers, and to give other swingers a place to read about those experiences. This blog will focus on topics of interest to swingers, such as swinging tips for beginners, club reviews, useful links, and sexy stories of swinging exploits. We hope you enjoy SwingingToday!