Swinger Slang

When you first start swinging, you will quickly discover that there is a lot of lifestyle specific terminology. Many swinger website and personal ads use slang or abbreviations, and it is important to be speaking the same language as everyone else.

Below is a list of some common swinger terminology that should help new swingers understand what everyone is talking about. This list is my no means all inclusive, but it should help the beginner swingers communicate with others in the lifestyle.





Playing : Sexual contact with other swingers
The Lifestyle : A term used to describe swinging
Soft Swap : Sexual contact not including penetration
Full Swap : Sexual contact including penetration
BBW : Big Beautiful Woman (A plus sized woman)
BBC : Big Black Cock (self explanatory)
HWP : Height Weight Proportional (used to describe body type)
Same Room : Playing with other swingers while in the same room as your partner
Seperate Room : Playing with other swingers while in separate rooms
DDF : Drug and Disease Free
NSA : No Strings Attached
Hot Wife : A wife that set up casual sex dates or encounters with other men, separate from her husband, but with his consent.
On Prem : A club that allows sexual contact to occur on the premise.
MFM : A three way with 2 men and a woman
FMF : A three way with 2 women and a man
V-Safe : A man that has had a vasectomy