The G Spot

The G-spot.  It’s often referred to as a direct link to the female orgasm.  Sometimes called the ultimate pleasure zone.  It has been known to lead to female ejaculation or “Squirting”, but is it really all that?  According to my research, the answer is still unknown.

There are websites that claim there is no magic G-spot that guarantees female orgasm.  According to an article found on the Salon.com website they refer to a study conducted in 2012, “ Dr. Amichai Kilchevsky published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found no conclusive evidence of the G-spot’s existence.  Kilchevsky looked at 96 published studies from the past 60 years, concluding that science couldn’t definitively find the G. “Without a doubt, a discrete anatomic entity called the G-spot does not exist.” 

2....4....6....8, how much can one girl take.

It was like any other night at the club.  We had been mingling that night with a couple that we have known for about a year now.  We had soft swapped with this couple before, during a 6-way, but never made it to a full swap scenario.   Things were going great, and we decided to get a room with them and 2 other couples that they knew.  We had been talking to these other couples all night as well, and they were a blast to be around.  We found a room that had two beds in it, and dove right into an 8-way if you will.  

Club Review : Club Sinday (Middletown, Ohio)

Club Sinday is an on premise swingers club in Middletown Ohio, about 45 minutes north of Cincinnati. Club Sinday seems to have a greater focus on marketing than most lifestyle clubs, particularly online, with sponsored adds on all of the major search engines. As a result, it is often one of the first clubs a newer swinger in the Cincinnati area finds out about. Club Sinday was the second swingers club that Mrs. Penguin and I ever attended, and our first impression was just how different it was from the other club we had visited. Like the other clubs in the area, everyone has a different opinion about Club Sinday, but hopefully this review will provide our readers with an objective overview of what Club Sinday has to offer.

On to the review....

My Surprise Romance

Being single and living with my parents made it impossible to date and have a sex life.  For a while (approximately 2013-2014) I was hitting up CraigsList and meeting up with guys for fun.  Dangerous, I know, but I had some good experiences and amazingly didn't meet up with any crazies.  After a while, I decided this was too risky to continue on.  I knew that at some point I would be getting myself into a dangerous situation that I would regret later.

I graduated nursing school in May 2014 and passed my boards a couple months later.  It took a while to get a "real job" as I called it.  I began my first nursing job in January 2015.  From that point on I mainly just worked and slept.  I didn't have much time for anything else.

Saying "No thanks" to an offer to play

It was a busy night at the club. We found ourselves in a small group with some other club members who we had not met before. Mrs. Penguin and I were very interested in one of the couples in the group, but had no real interest in one of the other couples at our tables. Its not that they were unattractive, annoying, or uninteresting, its just that for whatever reason they were not doing anything for us. Despite lack of interest in playing with them, we were still having a good time talking with them and everyone else in the group. Unfortunately, this couple was very much interested in us, and it did not take too long for the other man to ask me if we would would wanted to go downstairs to find a room.

Club Review : Club NV (Muncie, Indiana)

Club NV is an on premise swingers club in Muncie Indiana. Over the years, a few lifestyle friends have recommended Club NV to Mrs. Penguin and myself, but we had never had the opportunity to make the drive to check it out. Recently, Club NV hosted a theme night that really appealed to us, and since we had a few friends who were attending the club that night as well, we decided to give it a shot. After our visit, we knew that we had to write a review of Club NV.

On to the review....

Swinging, the ultimate confidence booster

--A large crowd has gathered around us both inside and outside the room.  How many people, I can't tell.  I am in the sex swing in the bondage room at the club suspended in the air.  Each foot positioned in one of the foot holds, with my legs eagerly spread open.  I am leaned back supported by the strap of the swing.  I grab onto the bar suspended above my head for support.  To the left of me was the girl I had been dancing with all night.  To the right of me, a bi-stander with a front row seat.  Between my legs, my husband who is giving me a proper fucking.  While keeping one hand on the bar above me for balance, I reached over to my left and unbutton and unzipped the girls jeans.  She had been flirting with me all night, it was time to see if she wanted more.  With her permission, I slowly slide my finger inside her.  She was soaking wet and oh so very warm--         

It's another Saturday night, and I'm in my closet getting ready to head out for a nice dinner with my husband.   As I look through my closet for something to wear, I'm reminded of how terrible I feel in my body.  Like most women, I worry about how I look.  I mean come on, society has told me my whole life to be sexy, I have to look a certain way.  Right?

Tips and Advice for New Swingers

When Mrs. Penguin and I first started swinging, we talked with a lot of people who had been in the lifestyle for a while, and were eager to hear their advice, and to learn any tips or tricks that they could pass on to us to help us enjoy ourselves and avoid any problems or drama. Many first time swingers are left to their own devices to figure out to how to swing, so anything they can learn from more experienced swingers will help them along the way.

Below you will find some of this advice compiled in convent list form :

Running into a co-worker at a swingers club

Mrs. Penguin and I were having a good night at the club. We talked to some friends, had some drinks, and eventually decided that we were in the mood to bang eachother, so we headed into the couples only group play area at the club. This play area is an open room with 7 separate beds in it. We are having a great time, and are really getting into it. While we play with eachother, we take a moment to look around the room to enjoy watching the other couples play. We are enjoying the scenery when it finally happens.... Mrs. Penguin looks at the bed to our left and sees a co-worker of hers, bent over on all fours, getting pounded doggy style right next to us.

Club Review : Club 440 (Milford, Ohio)

I will preface this post by saying that Club 440 was the first swingers club that Mrs. Penguin and I attended, and we still frequently attend this club, so that experience may impact the neutrality of my review.

Club 440 is a swingers club on the east side of Cincinnati. It has been open for quite some time, and is well known within the lifestyle community in the area. The club has a mixed reputation, with some swingers swearing by it, and others saying to avoid it. Management has changed several times over the years, so some of the older reviews that are floating around the internet may not represent the current state of the club.

 On to the review....

Why you should experience playing at home and in the club

--We watched as he placed his head between her legs.  Her moans growing as he relentlessly licked her clit.  Swirling his tongue up and down, side to side.  Breathing in and out of his mouth as he went about giving her the sensation of warmth and cold.  Then he slowly eased a finger into her wet, waiting pussy.  Moving it in and out, she arched her body towards him, as her pleasure increased with each stroke.  She grabbed a handful of his hair pulling him up and away from her.  She moved to the floor and knelt in front of him.  She slowly encompassed his erect penis with her mouth.  Moving slowly at first, and then faster as she drew him deeper into her.  He started swaying, pushed forward into her as she moved.  The look on his face was sensual, and eager for more--

Setting Rules For Couples

On one of our first trips to a swingers club, my wife and I were asked by a more experienced couple "what are your guy's rules?". Our response was that we had not talked about it yet. This couple told us "do yourselves a favor and don't play with anyone until you have both sat down and agreed upon a set of rules". This simple statement proves to be one of the best pieces of advice that any experienced swinger can give to a couple new to the lifestyle.