My Surprise Romance

Being single and living with my parents made it impossible to date and have a sex life.  For a while (approximately 2013-2014) I was hitting up CraigsList and meeting up with guys for fun.  Dangerous, I know, but I had some good experiences and amazingly didn't meet up with any crazies.  After a while, I decided this was too risky to continue on.  I knew that at some point I would be getting myself into a dangerous situation that I would regret later.

I graduated nursing school in May 2014 and passed my boards a couple months later.  It took a while to get a "real job" as I called it.  I began my first nursing job in January 2015.  From that point on I mainly just worked and slept.  I didn't have much time for anything else.



One day, a friend of mine told me about Club440.  I looked it up online and was intrigued.  I told a good friend of mine about the club and she was immediately on-board to join the club with me.  We joined in April 2015 as single females and immediately began having fun.  Shortly after joining the club itself, I joined the Yahoo group and posted a few pics.  I got lots of comments and requests to communicate from all sorts of men (and even a few women).

Fast-forward to December 2015.  This guy (let's just call him "J") commented on a couple of my pics and I replied with my email address.  Turns out J was interested in joining Club440 and was interested in playing with me there.  He began emailing me and we seemed to click instantly via email.  He then sent me a face pic.  I was not impressed at the time, I didn't think he looked like "my type", even though I was not 100% sure what my "type" even was.  Lots of women wanted the "pretty boy" type, and I thought that was what I was looking for.

The emails continued and of course they progressed into sending naughty pics back and forth.  He sent me a dick pic and I was instantly intrigued.  I could definitely have some fun with what he was packing.  I decided to invite him down to my neck of the woods.  I booked a hotel room in a nice hotel in northern Kentucky and invited him to meet me there.  We could just hang out and grab a bite to eat to see if we were compatible.  Of course, if anything were to transpire, we had a place to have some fun.

It was New Year's Eve.  The hotel room I got was pretty nice and cozy.  I settled in and began to get a little nervous.  Then there was a knock on the door.  J was here!  Major butterflies in the stomach.  I open the door and the first thing I notice is his big smile.  I immediately feel at-ease as I let him in the room.  I told him to make himself comfortable and I would get a quick shower.  In the middle of my shower, he decided he just had to have a peek.  He liked what he saw.

After my shower, we decided to grab a bite to eat at a local pizza place.  We found out we had a lot in common, including our senses of humor.  I was finding it really easy to talk to J, and I wasn't feeling all that nervous.  I was at-ease around this guy.  Hmmm.  I reminded myself at this time that this was just for fun.

We returned to the hotel room and decided to just get naked and start feeling around.  He was much bigger than his pics had made him look.  I was instantly excited.  I'll admit, the first thing I ever did with/to him was give him head.  He really enjoyed it, as did I.  We snuggled and watched TV for a little while, then he decided he wanted to have another round.  He forewarned me that it had been a few years since he had had sex and that he was a little rusty.

He didn't last but a couple minutes.  Needless to say, I was disappointed and discouraged.  Was this how it was gonna be every time?  I don't know if I could have much fun with that.  Since he didn't last very long, he apologized and said he'd make it up to me.  He then began to finger me.  WOW.  I am normally a quiet person.  He got me to orgasm fairly quickly (I assume it was the excitement of the situation) and I ended up screaming as I came.  That in itself impressed me.  No other man had ever made me that loud.

Even though this was the first time J and I had played together, I had invited a guy (D) I had been playing with off and on since July to join us at the hotel.  J was unsure if he wanted to play with another guy in the room, but I told him to give it a chance and that he did not have to do anything with D.  We all got naked and got on the bed.  D began eating me out while J knelt next to me, allowing me to suck on him.  J seemed to enjoy watching as D began fucking me in missionary position, allowing me to continue playing with J.  Both guys were having a blast, and that made me all that much more excited.  After we were done playing, D left to go home, leaving J and me alone again.

J and I played off and on all night while watching TV and talking between rounds.  We kissed at midnight and there definitely was a spark there.  I began to think that there may be something more there.  I tried to shake this thought out of my head, reminding myself that this is just for fun.  The next morning after checking out, we went our separate ways.  We promised to continue texting and emailing each other.  We definitely did.

A couple weeks later he invited me up to his house in Wilmington Ohio.  I live in Independence, KY, so it was quite a drive.  I thought to myself, "This is an awful long way to drive for a booty call."  His house wasn't much to look at, but it was cozy and warm.  I had brought an air mattress so we could snuggle while watching TV and movies.  After spending a night at his house, I knew there was something more there.

I made a trip up to Wilmington every week after that.  When I wasn't working, I was spending time with J.  We've been together now just over 7 months. (We began saying the L word back in April).  I am seriously considering moving up to Wilmington with him.  We have had several conversations about marriage and kids and bigger houses.  We both know we are meant to be together.  We keep talking about the day we get married.  Before we met, we were both skeptical about marriage and kids.  Now, we aren't as afraid of these things.  We are looking forward to our future together.

Now that we're a couple, we visit the club periodically.  We're both open to playing with other couples, but lean more toward playing with single guys.  J likes to watch me being pleasured by another man.  I'm not so sure I would like seeing J being pleasured by another woman.  We'll have to give that a try some time.  We both feel that we can continue going to the club periodically to continue to discover what we like and don't like.  We're both very open-minded, and I think that's why I feel we can continue to swing.

Some may think that a relationship that began as ours did won't last very long.  But I think that with an open mind, anything is possible.  Case-in-point, the fact that I wasn't impressed by his face pic at first didn't mean that I instantly was going to pass on this guy.  I kept my mind open and got to know J for who he was, and it turns out that we had so much in common.  I can even quote him as saying "You are pretty much the female version of me."  I feel that I met my soul mate through Club440.  I had just about given up on finding "the one", but I've always heard that when you're not looking, you find them.  I now believe in soul mates and love.  I am not afraid to face the future as long as I have J by my side.