Why you should experience playing at home and in the club

--We watched as he placed his head between her legs.  Her moans growing as he relentlessly licked her clit.  Swirling his tongue up and down, side to side.  Breathing in and out of his mouth as he went about giving her the sensation of warmth and cold.  Then he slowly eased a finger into her wet, waiting pussy.  Moving it in and out, she arched her body towards him, as her pleasure increased with each stroke.  She grabbed a handful of his hair pulling him up and away from her.  She moved to the floor and knelt in front of him.  She slowly encompassed his erect penis with her mouth.  Moving slowly at first, and then faster as she drew him deeper into her.  He started swaying, pushed forward into her as she moved.  The look on his face was sensual, and eager for more--



It was a few month ago when we invited a couple over to our house for an evening of fun.  We had been to the clubs many times at this point and had experienced a variety of "erotic" things, but this was our first time playing at home.  We thought that playing at home would be no different than playing at the club (after all, sex is sex, right?), but we were pleasantly surprised by how wrong we were. At the club there can be many distractions.  The music, the couple in the next room, or even the chatter from a crowd that has gathered to watch.  At the club there is often a sense of urgency.  Will we be able to find a room?  Will we be able to enjoy the experience before closing time? Will the bed be comfortable, or the temperature of the room be okay?  This night however, we were in control of the setting.  There was no urgency, and the atmosphere was very relaxed.  It was our house, our bed, and our timeline.

--He laid down on the bed and guided her on top of him.  She slowing eased herself down onto him, letting herself adjust to the fullness.  We watched as I sat next to her husband, stroking his penis in my hand as she moved up and down on him.  They were both thoroughly enjoying the experience--
 
 It was this particular occasion in our home, that I was able to fully see how sexy this man was.  Sure I have watched him when we have played with other couples, but this was different.  There were no distractions, no sense of urgency, and he was completely relaxed in our home environment. When you are in the moment with your partner, you can't see their fully body, (unless you have mirrors on the ceiling and on the walls, in which case I salute you).  I was able to view him, really watch him to see how he moves.  To see the response to each others pleasure was sensational.  This was the most sensual experience that I have ever had since being the the lifestyle.  As I watched them, it was like I was seeing him again for the first time.  It was an incredible eye opening experience.  Would I have ever been able to see him like this at the club?

--After just sitting back, enjoying the display in front of us, it was time to experience it ourselves.  As I moved into the doggy style position to faced her, she did the same to face me.  My husband positioned himself so he was standing behind her, and her husband behind me.  Together while facing each other, we had a perfect view of our partners as they dived into us.  I watched as my husband moved in and out of her, faster and harder.  Her husband started picking up speed and grabbing my hips, pushed deeper into me.  I watched my husband as came undone, loosing himself insider her.  Moments later, her husband came inside me.  The two of them letting out groans of pleasure as they found their release--        


Playing at home and playing at the club can be very different experiences. Playing at the club offers the total sensory experience. The music from the dance floor, the black lights, the noise from the crowd, the uncertainty of who you may end up playing with, the excitement of dancing, talking and flirting all night before you actually start playing. All of these factors add up to create a total experience that is unique to a swingers club.  Playing at home offers different benefits. At home you can go at your pace. There are fewer distractions, and you are in an environment that you are naturally comfortable in. Playing at home offers a more intimate experience that is much more conductive to simply enjoying the moment and taking it all in. Neither option is inherently better or worse than the other, they simply provide different experiences (and what swinger does not like a little bit of variety anyway?)

Tell me what you think. Where do you prefer to swing?  Please comment below.